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Can You Give Your Spouse A Cheating Pass?

In an interview with basketball player, Andrei Kirilenko’s wife by a foreign site, she spoke about how she and her husband have agreed to a ‘cheating pass’ which enables him sleep with anyone else aside from her once in a year. She said;

When I’m aware and I let him do it, it’s not cheating. What’s forbidden is always desirable. And athletes, particularly men, are susceptible to all the things they are offered. It’s the same way raising children – If I tell my child, ‘No pizza, no pizza, no pizza,’ what does he want more than anything? Pizza.“

This ‘cheating pass’ is becoming more common in a lot of western relationships where both spouses allow each other sleep with someone else with or without their knowledge at a particular time or based on stated conditions. Some other couples believe in a nonexclusive relationship where both partners don’t have to answer to the other when they get intimate with another person aside from them.

In logical terms, is this right? Being in a relationship with someone, does it not mean you have decided to forsake all others just for that one person? The basketballer’s wife was right on one thing though, a thing becomes more tempting when it is forbidden, check out Eve! Because a person is given a cheating pass doesn’t mean he/she has to actually use it… Some people believe that most men cannot remain dedicated to one woman for the rest of their lives so the cheating pass would let him satisfy his urge for someone else other than his wife and maybe help him appreciate what he has at home.

Even with this, what happened to self control and discipline? Won’t such freedom breed jealousy in the relationship, or give another woman/man a chance to steal your spouse’s heart. What of the case of STD’s, you can’t be certain of what he does when you are not watching; or someone gets pregnant in the process?… there is a lot at risk with this ‘cheating pass’ method. Popular international actress Mo’nique, tried the nonexclusive approach with her man back in 2010 and later admitted that she could not continue with it.

What do you think about the ‘cheating pass’ in relationships? Can you practice it in yours?

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